Children are supposed to be able to be children. It breaks my heart to hear of children gone missing who have met with foul play, or children that are abused by those they are entrusted to. Kids should be able to be just that: kids. Free to run like the wind, or daydream about being astronauts and statesmen. Sometimes this isn’t how their little lives are at all, and they are exploited by adults or abused by them. Stopping these predators is something that we should all be involved in. That’s what I want to write about today. I don’t want to make this sound too clinical, because this issue is not something that we should take lightly. I hope that I can bring some awareness about “Uncle Dirty”, as I call pedos.
I detest child abusers. I’m not talking about those who beat their kids rearend, or lay a hand on them; I’m talking about those cretins that sexually abuse children. I LOATHE those individuals. I find child predators and sex offenders repulsive and not worthy to breathe the same air that I breathe. They are the scum of the earth, and will never have my sympathy, empathy or compassion. They are lower than dirt and I feel that I should not have to share my Earth with them. Pedophiles bring the bile forth in the back of my throat. It is with great disgust that I even acknowledge that they are out there, and they will harm your children if you don’t take proper measures.
So, what is a pedophile? It’s not the dirty old man in the corner of the men’s bathroom at the local theater, or the creepy guy in the neighborhood that everyone avoids like the plague. Pedophiles are your friends, your neighbors, and your political representatives. They are everywhere. The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fourth Edition, describes a pedophile as
an individual who fantasizes about, is sexually aroused by, or experiences sexual urges toward prepubescent children (generally <13 years) for a period of at least 6 months. Pedophiles are either severely distressed by these sexual urges, experience interpersonal difficulties because of them, or act on them.
Have a seat over there.
With the internet and shows like To Catch A Predator, these mediums have exposed a side that many did not want to know existed. It’s there, and it’s in our face! It is up to us to recognize the face of “Uncle Dirty”, and to educate our children to the dangers of not only online predators, but those that are hiding in plain sight.
It’s very important for us to make sure that our children know about the dangers of internet predators, as well as those that hide in plain sight. The people who abuse our children are more often than not the very people they put their complete trust in. Often little league coaches, girl scout leaders, Sunday school teachers and sadly parents. Teachers and loving, dedicated parents teach “stranger danger”. Sadly, that does not cover these trusted individuals.
Children will defend their sexual predators to a fault either through love, fear or a combination of the two. Pedophiles are masters at grooming their victims. They gain the trust of the parents of their would be victim and are then given full access to the child. Grooming is described as : The deliberate actions taken by an adult to form a trusting relationship with a child, with the intent of later having sexual contact, is known as child grooming. The act of grooming a child sexually may include activities that are legal in and of themselves, but later lead to sexual contact. Typically, this is done to gain the child’s trust as well as the trust of those responsible for the child’s well-being.
Pedophiles are expert manipulators and will do anything to get close to children. We have all heard about the coaches or Boy Scout leaders who have been arrested for sexual impropriety. It’s not only men who do these things. It’s women as well. We hear about teachers who act inappropriately with their students. They also have the access and capability to groom.
It is important that parents know how sex offenders will try to get close to their children. I will point out these ways that sex offenders groom children.
Examples of activities sometimes used as part of child grooming are set forth as follows.
- Taking an undue interest in someone’s child (having a “special” friend)
- Giving gifts or money to the child for no apparent reason
- Showing pornography to the child (illegal in many jurisdictions)
- Talking about sexual topics that are not age-appropriate
- Invading the child’s privacy (e.g. walking in on him/her in the bathroom)
- Hugging, kissing, or other physical contact even when the child does not want this attention
- Allowing the child to get away with inappropriate behavior
- Talking to the child about problems that would normally be discussed with adults (e.g. marital problems)
I guess my main reason for writing this is to say be safe. There are terrible people out there and they ingratiate themselves into our lives to get close to our kids. I was going to do this under a pseudonym because the collateral damage regarding this is far reaching. It was brought to my attention that there is a sex offender on Websleuths, and she is an admin. She was charged with four counts of lewd and lascivious behavior. She plead no contest to two and two were dropped. Her husband, however, was sentenced to 15 years on multiple cases of sex offenses and child battery. The links are in the first comment that Lovey posted. I honestly felt rotten for having to bring this to light, but she is a SEX OFFENDER, who has access to children and victims’ families. Websleuths would sleuth someone in a New York minute, and rather than keep the information hidden, it was decided to make it public.
I apologize for anyone that was hurt by this, but this is real. And I still hate sex offenders.
Be well.
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Windchime from Websleuths is a sex offender. For real! Read this!!!!
http://truthaboutws.createmybb2.com/index.php
http://www.docstoc.com/docs/44.....rd-Summary
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We love you and stand behind you, Princess!!!!
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These monsters are not fit to live!
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What Lovey said -- OMG!
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@ Lovey WHAT?? OMG
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Windchime? As in the moderator named Windchime at Websleuths? How can that be?
Tricia, tsk tsk. First lies about the supposed “non-profit” agency “Lighting the Way Home”, and now you have a convicted pedophile on staff?
Does Mark Klaas know about this? Mark Lunsford?
I think you need to get your house in order and soon. Websleuths SUCKS, and supports pedophiles.
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THIS IS HORRIFYING!!!! I am VERY disturbed by this information!
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Websleuths harbors a pedophile! OMG. Windchime your sins have found you out!
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Princess this is shocking. Has this been fact checked yet?
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I am shocked that WS has this person as admin there. Tricia you have been fooled again. Get this woman off the net.
Windchime you are slime. How can you have this record of lewd behavior and say you are an advocate for children? YOU are pathetic.
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OMFG!
Windchime? The administrator at Websleuths??
Wasn’t she interviewed on television during Lenny Padilla’s Blanchard Park search for Caylee?
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You gotta be fucking kiddding me!
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OH. MY. GAWD!!!! Lovey -- SERIOUSLY?!?!?! I am BEYOND disgusted! Someone needs to notify Marc Klaas and Mark Lunsford immediately. Wonder if Tricia knows….
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Interesting! I’d like to hear more on this “holier than thou” Windslime type person!
Makes me wonder what the chicken is really used for!
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Isn’t her sister Tankerbell a mod in Murts chat? I’d say pretty certain she knew about her own sister. These people never stop amazing me.
Wasn’t websluths trying to make advertising $$ pimping background checks? Guess they only felt they were usefull on their members.
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Windchime is also a friend of Murt’s. The guy who is interested in children.
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omg -- what she and her husband did is absolutely SICK!
I wonder who the other woman was?
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You dumbass you hurt kids Windbag!!!
How could you? Damn POS!!!
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Wow, Mark Klaas needs to know this. So does Lois. She needs to stay away from Dakota!
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Someone needs to tell all the advocates out there about this Slimebag.
Marc Klass, Mark Lunsford, and anyone else in Florida that needs to know.
Maybe every Sheriff’s Office needs to know so they can keep her away from the families of children.
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OMG, after going to search for Cayle, after yelling at poor George and Cindy while they struggle to deal with two losses, after starting an organization that is to benefit missing CHILDREN, after getting close to Murt (ICK) and Leonard Pardilla), after getting close to Mark Lunsford and the bike ride benefits, after becoming obsessed with a crime forum that focuses on missing and abused children and getting “in close” with the owner, after the obsession with Danilynn Smith, after ALL of that……..just you sick piece of shit, Terri!
Tricia, look at the filth you print on the front page of your website and victimize people by using their real names without permission and then LOOK AT WHO YOU’RE IN BED WITH and taking a flying fucking leap! Taking out the Trash indeed! Fuck you!
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OMG! Tricia probably knew and ignored it. She makes it her business to know everything she can around someone, and use it against them later. Windchime just hasn’t pissed her off enough yet to use it. I just cannot believe this woman has been on actual searches, and around families and children already thrust into a precarious lifestyle due to a loss of a child. She has been around Dakota. How many other children has she been around, and how many families of grief (with other children) has she become acquainted with and familiar with due to her association with Websleuths? Many families (who don’t know any better) contact Websleuths in their quest for help and searches and information? I read at least one family found Websleuths by doing a search on their own case. How many children has she been “available” to because she works with a “crime sleuthing forum”?? OMG!!
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yeah,me --
I’m guessing Tricia and Windslime/Terri were laughing pretty hard about exposing someones real name and location on their site, and passing Princess’ info on to Murt. Wonder what their mood is now? Payback and Karma can be harsh bitches.
What other names does Windchime post under in other chats?
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I wonder how she will try to explain this one?
Captcha(and Princess I am not kidding about this one) jumbo-jet inquire
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After all the years of following cases and seeing the ramifications nothing surprises me anymore. I KNOW this should blow my doors off, but it just doesn’t. I wouldn’t say I have been desensitized, but each and every day brings a new monster to light and very little surprises me anymore. Once a friend made the comment that “monsters are REAL” -- and Good Lawd was he correct. Truer words may never have been spoken!!
I hope WS does something immediately before there is a “future” victim.
Princess -- thanks for having the guts to bring this to light -- you’re amazing!!
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This is shocking. I wonder if the newspapers know about this?
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If Websleuths would hide this disgusting criminal, who and what else would they hide?
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Vape my friend, if I’m correct Windchime aka BreezySeas45 are one and the same person. This person is also a sister to Tinker_bell_1967 who is one of the lead moderators at Murtville and is lower than low in my opinion. She brings the Internet to the lowest levels of depravity. I heard Breezy hangs with the Murtoids alot.
Seems one isn’t too careful in giving moderator status out to perps like this….. One con to another…
Captcha deeper said
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In defense of Websleuths, and you know my thoughts on that, I will say that I doubt that they knew anything about this, and are just as hurt and shocked as the rest of us.
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I notice the link above is a summary of the charges. Does anyone have a link to actual court docs? I live in a very conservative county and, believe it or not, my then 15 year old was making out with his 15 year old g’friend in a school parking lot and was charged with the same thing by the county school resource officer. They were just kissing. It was dropped to skipping school. I am not saying “THESLIME” didn’t do anything horrible and absolutely disgusting (sounds like she and her husband did) but would like to see the court docs. Anyone with a link?
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Yes, I will have pdf copies in a few hours.
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princess
February 26th, 2009 at 4:11 pm
In defense of Websleuths, and you know my thoughts on that, I will say that I doubt that they knew anything about this, and are just as hurt and shocked as the rest of us.
Hmmm…some websleuths they turnd out to be. Can’t keep their own house clean…ya, they lost all credibility, whether they knew or not.
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Madge, She was 33 when this happened.
Captcha-dence. dishes
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Angelinfl
February 26th, 2009 at 4:11 pm
Vape my friend, if I’m correct Windchime aka BreezySeas45 are one and the same person. This person is also a sister to Tinker_bell_1967 who is one of the lead moderators at Murtville and is lower than low in my opinion. She brings the Internet to the lowest levels of depravity. I heard Breezy hangs with the Murtoids alot.
Seems one isn’t too careful in giving moderator status out to perps like this….. One con to another…
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This sick bitch sure has HUGE BALLS to immerse herself in the missing child cases she has -- not to mention, and administrator at Websleuths!
Holy Shit! I wonder if she was trolling for new victims!
Most sex offenders have a LOT more victims that just the one or two they get nabbed for.
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hey madge -- the first link by Lovey up there is a forum that has some more information on the case.
You wouldn’t freaking believe what they did!
And her husband had sex with a child under 6!
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I wonder — do they have to register as sex offenders?
I’m gonna do some checking… maybe we can find their mug shots!
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Yea Mroz I know she was 33. That’s what makes it so bad. Not defending, just want to read what the hell this woman was doing? This kind of stuff just absolutely sickens me.
Edit -- maybe I am just missing the link. Trouble said it is there -- thanks. Will try again.
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I have no doubt the TRICIA owner of WEBSLEUTHS knew about this. She gathers too much personal information on all of her members not to know. TRICIA is as thick in this as Windchime (TERRI). Tricia may not be a pedo, but her best friend and Admin is. From what I read, Windchime is still on probation!
Mark Klass and Mark Lunsford need to know about her/this. Pedos can NEVER be rehabilitated and it’s only a matter of time before Windchime offends again.
I am so bothered by the fact that she has put herself in the middle of the families of missing children. I wonder if her Probation Officer is aware of her intense interest in missing children.
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omg I can’t read the link in firefox. What does it say?
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Interesting Websleuths has a piece on the preying upon a child today.
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I’m sorry, but I do NOT believe that Tricia did NOT know about this. That woman sleuths everyone and anyone. She has NO boundaries. I just don’t believe that she had no knowledge of this whatsoever. She’s a piece of trash herself. As far as I’m concerned hiding something like this is NOT beneath her! NOT AT ALL!
Captcha: quarter heavy — LOL :)
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To give Tricia a little tiny bit of benefit of doubt, if she did NOT know, now that she does, it’ll be interesting to see what action she takes.
And if she did know, it’ll be interesting to see what action she takes too.
Either way, hell should be breaking loose. Wonder if it’ll be covered in her TardBits as extensively as she posted the info about the original mob ban back in July.
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Wow -- I found the info and the forum said they would be posting the docs shortly. Wow Wow Wow -- ugh. Thanks Trouble for pointing the way. We as a society have got to figure out a way to explain to our children the dangers of these sickening people without scaring the pants off of them.
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LOL, I googled a name and a background check popped up. No lie — I didn’t run it… haha.
Princess, if you don’t want this here, then please delte this…
http://www.docstoc.com/docs/44.....ound-Check
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Princess, you’re right, child molesters can be and ARE anywhere and everywhere, in fact, they are not only your next door neighbors, but often parents or relatives.
I won’t go in to the horrid details, but I will say a few things to try and make my point. When someone asked the other day how a mother could leave her child, just because she was being physically abused, whether or not the child was. I didn’t say too much, but I wanted to comment on that as well. Sort of goes hand in hand.
My mom left my dad when I was 4yrs. old and left my sister and me at home with him. She didn’t do it because she didn’t love us, she didn’t do it because she was a coward, she did it to survive. Keep in mind, she had no idea he would ever harm us, she thought he reserved all of that for her. She had to sneak off in the middle of the night, knowing if he caught her, he’d kill her. Once she got set up in an apartment and made all the arrangements for safety, she came back and got us. Unfortunately, all the physical abuse was reserved for my mother, but there was other abuse going on that he reserved for myself and my sister, and my mother had no idea.
At first it started like Princess explains, with the grooming. In my case, he liked to go on and on about how wonderful I was, how I was beautiful just like my mother, and what little girl doesn’t want to hear that? He showered me with gifts, and often put my sister down in front of me, trying to make it seem as though he loved me more, all of that is grooming so to speak.
After all the grooming, it moved on to little things at first, helping me take a bath, even though I was 4yrs. old and could “wash” myself. It soon escalated into much more. It’s a strange thing for a child, because while I wasn’t being threatened physically if I were to tell anyone, he made sure to threaten the ones I loved, my mother, my sister, etc. Also, even as a small child, back in the days before television and movies were so disgusting, I just somehow knew it was wrong, without ever being told, and I didn’t want to tell anyone, whether I was threatened or not. I use to hate to go to his house every other weekend, and to this day there are things I despise. The sound of a creaking door in the middle of the night, things such as that.
I recall some things when I was 3,4,5 yrs. old. I assure you that at 39yrs. old if you can recall things vividly, chances are they were traumatic, not good memories. Anyway, it seems as though this runs in families, because while at a July 4th picnic watching fireworks, my Uncle (my dads brother) decided he would be Uncle Dirty that night. I’m not too fond of fireworks these days either.
Believe me, my reason for telling this little story is not for sympathy or pity. I’ve grown up, moved on, learned to live with memories both good and bad, and I know life is not a bowl of cherries all the time. The reason I tell this is so you are aware. I never told anyone as a child, but apparently someone in this day and age told my Uncle, as he is now registered on the Texas list of offenders…. The problem is, not many people actively search those, and/or even think to look those up when first meeting someone, hiring someone, dating someone, marrying someone, etc. Please just be aware that they are everyday people, they walk among us, and that’s a fact, I’ll leave you with this as a reminder.
My so called “dad” (sperm donor) is the Chief of Police for a VERY big city.
My uncle is a deacon at his Church, has been for years.
They are out there, so be aware of it, and more than anything, make sure your children are aware, and start making them aware at a young age, it can happen to anyone unfortunately.
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Opionator
February 26th, 2009 at 4:44 pm
LOL, I googled a name and a background check popped up. No lie — I didn’t run it… haha.
Princess, if you don’t want this here, then please delte this…
http://www.docstoc.com/docs/44.....ound-Check
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Princess has this already!
Captcha:physical Treist
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okie dokie… lol
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Tricia is unbelievable ..she still has her panties in a twist about the “tardbits” letter.I think she’d should be more worried about associating with known pedophiles.
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Tricia obviously has her hands full trying to think of witty comebacks to letters of complaints.
I have no doubt that Tricia will never speak publicly of this.
I can’t believe that Tricia allowed a convicted sex offender to run her forum -- when there are families of victims on the boards!
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Of course I didn’t take the time to edit my post, so there is a mistake in there, which I hate, I’m anal about it lol…
The line… but apparently someone in this day and age told my Uncle
Should have read…. someone in this day and told ON my uncle.
Makes a lot of difference, or makes more sense when I added the word on in there ….
oh well, hopefully it made sense anyway :)
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What about her other administrators? I think they should all have background checks done on them, as well as Tricia too!
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